“I’m confident. My teammates trust me. My coaches trust me.” ~ Paige Bueckers
Hey Reader!
What if I told you confidence isn’t something you have, it’s something you do? And, it's a skill you can train.
Every day I get DMs and comments from players who are frustrated. They kill it in practice, but freeze up in games. They want to know how to keep shooting after a few misses, how to talk to their coach about playing time, or how to just play without being so afraid to mess up.
It’s the number one thing I get asked about. And it’s personal, because I was that player. I was the kid who would get so down on myself after one mistake that it would wreck my whole game. I’d play invisible just so I wouldn’t get noticed for the wrong reasons.
That struggle is exactly why we are developing our Unshakeable Confidence course. It's a powerful framework to help you unlock your true confidence, become more resilient, and play like you train.
This isn’t about more drills. It’s a blueprint for the mental side of the game, full of stuff I've learned from playing with and against some of the best. Stuff I wish I knew when I was your age.
For example, we talk about building confidence through “Confidence Reps.” A confidence rep is any small, controllable win. Taking a good shot without hesitating? That’s a rep, whether it goes in or not. Turning the ball over and instead of dropping your head, you sprint back on defense? That’s a rep.
We also get into what I call “building a reputation with yourself.” You’d never skip a scheduled meeting with your coach, right? So why do you hit snooze when you promised yourself you’d get up to shoot? Every time you keep a promise to yourself, no matter how small, you build self-trust. When you trust yourself, you don’t need anyone else’s approval to feel confident.
It's a totally different way to think about the game. It’s how you close the gap between the player you are in practice and the player you want to be when it matters most.
The Unshakeable Confidence course and playbook will be available soon. I’m excited to see more players stop playing scared and start playing with the freedom that comes from real, earned confidence.
You got this!
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